What is be a winnner?

what i need have to be a winner?

this question that i have in my heart now,

be happy with i have?get alot money?

have a good marriage?

be a good missionary or a good pastor?

alway want more than i have?

get my dreams?

be known by all?

i think that i never will have a right answer by any body, but why is so important be preoccupied with this things? or my question is:

what is be a winner?

i know when god look at me he can see a winner, no because what i have or who i am, but because who he is, and what he done for get my heart. If God who died for us, why we be so preoccupied to please peoples? why we de worried to get things and win positions, instead have a real and deeper relationship with God a true relationship.If we realy stop and think, what is realy important?